Sadaqa jariya which means Continuous Alms/Charity is an action that someone does that remains active even after the person is dead.
To succeed Insha’Allah in securing Allah's pleasure concerning our children, allow them be the legacy of prophet Mohamed (saw)and be honored in this life and beyond, we have to Let them realize the importance of the correct intention in regards to any deeds; every action should be Exclusively for the sake of Allah and not to please daddy or mommy. Tell me Riya Al ikhlas is never too far!! Furthermore helping them discover the love Allah is the main drive! And obeying His commands is a prove of this love. This entails teaching them that the opposite will bring Allah's wrath and punishment ! If you are not the right path then you are certainly following the shaytan's footsteps.
. Subhanallah when Allah says" We breathed into her some of Our Spirit and made her and her son a Sign for all the worlds. (Surat al-Anbiya': 91) we (subhana wa ta'la) His praises are certainly the best and the sweetest “and it is in the submission that the slave of Allah find his reason to live We Have to learn through these ayah which indeed are sign for us if we reflect !
We also need to keep the firmness in our life as we all know eeman fluctuates.Then why not implore Allah to nurture us and them to perfection so that we may live a life that reflects the testimony of our love for Him (Subhanawa Ta'la).By Allah dear sisters and brothers only He can!
So the bottom line is that this very deen should be the underlying characteristic incorporated and reflected in every aspect of their life and in all these vocations in term of value, ethics etc...